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Director Niu was stunned: "What logic is wrong?"

Hua Zhenxing: "About the logic that mistakes can be corrected. Whether it is from the perspective of biology, sociology or history, people make mistakes, and only when they are punished can they learn lessons and sum up experience.

But according to your logic just now, if the school punishes him, he cannot correct his mistakes. Only when he is not punished can he correct his mistakes. Is that true?If there is no punishment, how can we correct it? "

Director Niu was a little out of control by Hua Zhenxing, he quickly shook his head and said: "That's not what I mean, if you want to talk about punishment, Teacher Qiao has already been punished.

His classmate Shi Shuangcheng slapped him on the spot, and the school did not pursue Shi Shuangcheng.Including severe criticism from school leaders and the impact on his work performance evaluation, these are all punishments.I just think that the punishment should be appropriate and not necessarily so heavy. "

Hua Zhenxing: "As I said just now, how to punish him should be decided by the school, not by me. I just ask that it should be dealt with according to the regulations issued by the school and the Ministry of Education. Is there anything wrong with that?

And as far as I know, Qiao Samgao has never apologized to Shi Shuangcheng himself. Of course, he may be afraid of being beaten again.The person who came to me first today was you, not him. I don't see any intention of repentance from him. "

Director Niu breathed a sigh of relief: "This is easy to handle, let him come and personally apologize to you!"

Hua Zhenxing waved his hand and said, "I don't need it, nor am I qualified to forgive him."

Director Niu: "Student Hua Zhenxing, why don't you have the right to forgive him? Now you are the one to complain against him!"

Hua Zhenxing: "Teacher Niu thinks that Teacher Qiao Shangao really just accidentally said something wrong?"

Director Niu: "He has already admitted his mistake."

Hua Zhenxing: "Then may I ask what I did wrong?"

Director Niu: "This...he shouldn't be targeting you personally."

Hua Zhenxing nodded and said: "This is the problem. Does he know me? We are strangers, we have never met, and I have only been here for a few days, and it is impossible for him to know anything about me. Then he Who is humiliated?

I am an international student from Jili State, and I am the first Jili State student to come to Chunhua University in so many years.If it is my misbehavior that affects the image of Jiliguo, it is my fault.

But what did I do wrong, to embarrass the whole country, did I just come to the wrong place?If it was Jiliguo who hurt him, then he should investigate and give him an explanation.

If this is not the case, and it is just his groundless humiliation, then there are more than 1000 million people in Jili State, should each of them write a reply receipt?As far as I know, Jili Kingdom has maintained friendly relations with Dongguo.Equality of national character is the diplomatic principle of Dongguo.

'A Chinese bastard from Jiliguo', that's what he said.As for whether I am a bum, he has no way of knowing. If what he wants to emphasize is not Jiliguo but the Chinese ethnicity, there is no need for me to review it.

That should be a review by the school and the education department. Who trained this kind of person, and who appointed him?

Pay attention to the identity and occasion of his speech, he is not Shi Shuangcheng's relatives and friends talking about private topics, if that is the case, even if he said something wrong, it is not easy for me to pursue it, it only depends on Shi Shuangcheng's willingness to listen.

But he made remarks to student volunteers in his capacity as a school guidance teacher. This is what the school should deal with, and it is also the reason why I complained about him..."

It may be that the weather in September is a bit hot, and Director Niu was sweating, and he said in a different tone: "Student Hua Zhenxing, I have already understood your opinion, and I will reflect it to the school leaders truthfully.

Do you have any other opinions or requests for the school, such as help for study and exams, future postgraduate insurance, dormitory conditions, and improvement of life?As long as it is reasonable, you can mention it. Would you consider this receipt? "

Hua Zhenxing said with a wry smile: "Mr. Niu, I understand what you mean. If I don't punish him, I will be dissatisfied. The school can give me appropriate compensation to make me feel satisfied.

You are taking so much trouble!But I still can't figure it out, would you rather spend the school's public resources on this kind of thing than make him pay the price? "

Director Niu also smiled wryly: "Student Hua, you may not know much about Dongguo's situation. Things are not as simple as you imagined. Do you think I don't want to deal with him? Well, let me tell you a story, it's mine. personal experience……"

Niu Yiping was very patient in doing student work, and told Hua Zhenxing a story of the past.

Before he was promoted to be the deputy director of the principal's office, he had participated in a cadre training class organized by the organization, and there were students from various institutions across the country in the training class.Niu Yiping was the oldest, and he also served as monitor.

There was a student in the class who started to ask for leave for various reasons after a few days of class. Either the child had an accident or the parents were hospitalized. He was absent from the three-month training for more than two months.

He also privately borrowed money from his classmates for various reasons, ranging from several hundred yuan to thousands of yuan each, saying it was for emergency.The students did not suspect him, and almost all of them borrowed him.When Niu Yiping heard about this person's misfortune, he was very sympathetic and wanted to organize a fundraiser for the whole class.

It was because of this that he found out that something was wrong. This person borrowed almost all the classmates in the class, and the reasons for making up were different.I called someone to verify it, and found that the so-called accidents of this person were all fictitious.

The students were very angry, but this was a private act, and the amount of loan from each person was not large, and the training class could not handle it.

Niu Yiping approached the person in charge and suggested that, since he could not handle the matter of borrowing money, but he had been absent from class for such a long time, it was suggested not to issue a diploma according to the training discipline.

As a result, the person in charge of the training class told Niu Yiping that he could not do this.This is a formal cadre training class organized, and a group of people cannot be implicated because of this one person's fault.

Because once this is done, it is a teaching accident. If a student fails to graduate, the leader of the training school and the class leader must write a report to explain the reason, and they will also be held accountable for poor supervision and management.

So this person graduated normally, but his problems during the training period were also reflected in the training course to his original unit, and he may have no hope of promotion in the future.

After telling the story, Director Niu said again: "Student Hua, do you understand now? There is no problem in criticizing him, but if he is formally expelled, he will have to go through organizational procedures.

Once the organizational procedures are followed, a report must be written to explain the situation. What kind of mistake did he make, what is the reason, and who is related to it?

His mentor, the head of the department directly under him, and the head of the department in charge assigned him to be the person in charge of the volunteer group's instructor... all of them had to follow suit, and he was not the only one who was implicated and affected!

Even if the others were not punished along with them, the departmental work summary and report materials were not good-looking, and the year-end grade evaluation was also affected!And once an official record is left for archiving, it is inevitable that people will bring it up to talk about what happens in the future.

In fact, at this point, as long as he is still in the system, he will be punished. In the future, his various titles, job title evaluations, and project applications will be affected...Xiaohua, what are you doing?No need to take notes! "

While Director Niu was talking, he saw that Hua Zhenxing had already taken out his notebook and pen, and was recording something.He was taken aback, and quickly opened his mouth to stop it.

Hua Zhenxing put down his pen and raised his head, grinning and said: "It's a very good accountability system, which is worth learning from Jiliguo. I just record the main points, see how I can summarize and modify them, and take them back for Jiliguo to refer to. implement."

With Hua Zhenxing's cultivation base, he didn't need to take notes at all if he wanted to remember what Director Niu said.The reason why he did this was just to list the main points, do some analysis, and send it to the senior management committee of Jiliguo to study how to revise and improve it so that it can be promoted and implemented.

Director Niu wiped his sweat: "Xiaohua, I only said what I just said just now because I regard you as one of my own. Don't record anything. It's all a private communication, so you can't go out and talk nonsense. If it's different, the score will be different. occasion!"

Hua Zhenxing nodded quickly: "I understand, and I will never talk nonsense. I really think the accountability system you just introduced is good. I am here to learn, and I should learn this aspect too...you go ahead!"

Seeing his posture of memorizing the notebook on the spot, Director Niu didn't dare to say more, he said helplessly: "Student Hua, I've already said so much with all my heart and soul, but you're showing your opinion!"

Hua Zhenxing: "Mr. Niu, I'm just a student here. From the perspective of a student, can I ask you a question?"

Director Niu: "If you have any questions, feel free to ask."

Hua Zhenxing: "Chunhua University is the top university in Dongguo. If there is a math teacher here who not only doesn't know calculus, but even makes mistakes in trigonometric functions, can we tolerate it? Should he still be a teacher here?"

Director Niu stopped talking for a while, and Hua Zhenxing continued: "You said just now that Mr. Qiao Shangao studied hard, and it was not easy to get to where he is today. This is the issue that really needs to be paid attention to.

He is not a mathematician, he majored in International Relations, not only an in-service Ph.D., but also a teacher of the Department of International Relations of the Academy of Social Sciences.May I ask whether he studied international relations or the destruction of international relations?

What kind of international relations can such a Ph.D. create for Guliguo in the professional field in the future?What kind of students can such a teacher teach in terms of international relations? What does it mean to Jiliguo?

Shi Shuangcheng can slap him and forget it, but I am a student of Jili Kingdom after all, how can I turn a blind eye?How the school handles him is not for me to decide, but I have this attitude myself. "

Hua Zhenxing is so humble and eager to learn, but also so reticent.Director Niu communicated earnestly for a long time, but in the end he still couldn't get him to sign the processing receipt. Before leaving, he could only say that he would give his opinion back to the school leaders.

If this had happened in Jili Kingdom, Hua Zhenxing would have summoned both Shire and Minister of Education Shen Sishu.

But this is Dongguo, and his identity is just an ordinary foreign student, so he can only use the channels and methods he has to solve the problem, but he feels pretty good and can learn a lot.

Although Hua Zhenxing said that there was no need for Qiao Shangao to apologize to him, the day after Director Niu left, Qiao Shengao found Hua Zhenxing's dormitory with a gift and wanted to apologize to him face to face.

Chapter 418 An Apology Is Equal To Second Injury

Since they came to apologize, Hua Zhenxing couldn't drive them away with a straight face, just like Director Niu said, there must be a chance for people to reflect and admit their mistakes.

Qiao Shangao is 27 this year. If you listen to the accent, some people may think that Hua Zhenxing is his fellow villager.Although Hua Zhenxing opened the door to let him in and asked him to sit down and talk, he was still a little upset.

Is an apology that I have to make under pressure a real apology?

But Qiao Shangao came anyway, which shows that the right and wrong judging mechanism of the society is still normal, and people all know what he did wrong, otherwise Huazhenxing would not be able to complain; it also shows that the social error correction mechanism is still in operation, otherwise there would be no People will put pressure on him to come.

In the former Jili Kingdom, the right and wrong judgment mechanism is no longer normal, and the error correction mechanism is no longer in operation.

Hua Zhenxing couldn't help but think of Aden's experience. Back then, the thugs in the plantation were free to let dogs bite the slave workers at will.Therefore, Hua Zhenxing cherishes the current Jili Kingdom even more, and also likes the current Dongguo.

Since he likes Dongguo, of course he is even more upset when he sees Qiao Samgao.

If Qiao Samgao was sincere enough, he shouldn't let Director Niu run into trouble, but he would first take the initiative to come to Hua Zhenxing to apologize, at least he can come with Director Niu.Is it because Qiao Samgao is not smart enough to think of this?of course not!

If Hua Zhenxing had signed the processing receipt yesterday, he might not be able to wait for Qiao Shangao himself.

There is a quality in Hua Zhenxing that makes many people unhappy, that is, the innocence and seriousness of an idealist.It was only a matter of a few words, but it did not cause any serious consequences, and Qiao Samgao himself was beaten, so why bother?

But Hua Zhenxing knew very well that it was impossible for every student to be Shi Shuangcheng, and it was even more impossible for everyone to be Hua Zhenxing. The probability of Qiao Samgao meeting someone like them was too small.

In most cases, Qiao Samgao would neither be beaten nor punished, which inevitably gave him an illusion that what he did should neither be beaten nor punished.How could Hua Zhenxing give him such an illusion?

Qiao Shangao was in a very uneasy mood, what was he worrying about, Hua Zhenxing could directly feel it.Although Hua Zhenxing didn't practice Buddhism, he has a clear mind, but he still has the ability to sense emotions. After sitting down, he cut straight to the point and said, "Mr. Qiao, what do you want from me?"

Seeing that Hua Zhenxing's attitude was acceptable, Qiao Shangao breathed a sigh of relief, and said sincerely: "Student Hua, I'm here to apologize to you!

At that time, in front of classmate Shi Shuangcheng, I really just accidentally said the wrong thing.I have already admitted my mistake to the leader, and I will also admit it to you today..."

It is impossible for Hua Zhenxing to ask, "Where did you go wrong?" This is not a quarrel between couples, and at the level of the department leaders, when they criticize Qiao Shangao, they must have already analyzed it very clearly.

So Hua Zhenxing just listened quietly, wondering what Qiao Samgao's purpose was?

After Qiao Samgao apologized, he took out a newest nectarine mobile phone from his handbag, put it on the table and said, "This is my apology, please accept it!"

Hua Zhenxing smiled, pushed the phone back and said, "There is no need for the gift, please take it back, I will not accept it."

Qiao Shangao was in a hurry: "This is my apology, please accept my apology!"

Hua Zhenxing: "I accept the apology, but the things will not be accepted."

Qiao Shangao said in surprise, "Student Hua is willing to accept the apology?"

Hua Zhenxing: "I've never been unwilling! Why don't I accept what should be done?"

Qiao Samgao: "Then you are willing to forgive me?"

Hua Zhenxing: "If you really repented, of course I wouldn't blame you now."

Qiao Samgao took out the receipt that Director Niu brought yesterday: "Then please sign this document, and you don't need to withdraw the school's complaint yourself, but the Ministry of Education and the Ministry of Foreign Affairs still need to You withdraw the complaint yourself.

This requires you to go separately, so please accept the gift!If you have any other requests, don't forget to mention them. "

Hua Zhenxing narrowed his eyes: "I accept the apology, but I can't accept gifts, I can't sign this letter, and I can't withdraw my complaint."

Qiao Shangao was startled: "Didn't you just say that you were willing to forgive me?"

Hua Zhenxing: "Is that what you mean by forgiveness?"

Qiao Samgao: "What else could that mean?"

Hua Zhenxing: "It seems that you don't quite understand the meaning of an apology. The so-called apology represents an attitude and admits that one has made a mistake. If people think that they have not made a mistake but have been unfairly punished, they can also insist on their own position.

From my standpoint, of course I think you are wrong, so you come to apologize, of course I am willing to accept it.I won't blame you for your apology now. What I'm complaining about is your wrong words and deeds. The two are not the same thing.

Admitting mistakes is not a punishment, but a kind of self-salvation. Without admitting mistakes, it is impossible to correct words and deeds.If you really admit your mistake, you should accept my complaint instead of asking me to withdraw it.

If you use an apology as a means to force the person you hurt and offend to tolerate your hurt and offense.This is not really admitting your mistakes, but letting the other person accept your mistakes.

A real apology should not be demanded of the victim.Using an apology to force the victim to express his position just to escape punishment is actually a secondary injury to the victim.

In reality, many victims may say, 'I don't ask for anything but an apology. 'This is often because they are unable to punish those who hurt them, and they can only hope that the society's right-wrong judgment mechanism is still normal.

As for you, today this is not an apology, but a beg for mercy, and you are begging the wrong person.

The so-called forgiveness means that only those who have the power to punish you are qualified to forgive you.I myself have not punished you in any way, and I have no right to punish you, so I am not qualified to forgive you. "

Qiao Samgao was a little confused, but he grasped the last sentence keenly, and said eagerly: "Why are you not qualified? You can just complain, as long as you sign this receipt and withdraw your complaint..."

Hua Zhenxing interrupted him: "My complaint is just a description of a fact. If you think it is inconsistent with the facts, you can point it out or refute it.

For example, if someone else's child does something wrong, his parents will discipline him.The school has the power to punish you, not because you offended me, but because you violated the regulations of the school and the Ministry of Education.

Chunhua University’s disciplinary requirements for faculty and staff, and the regulations of the Ministry of Education of Dongguo, I have no right to modify, let alone modify for you. This is a matter for the Ministry of Education and the school.

Punishment itself is not a problem, why should punishment be imposed and how should punishment be reasonable, this is the real problem. "

Qiao Shangao was really anxious: "But if you don't withdraw your complaint and express your understanding, the school may expel me! I don't know that your complaint has been taken seriously by that leader, and the school is also under pressure now."

Hua Zhenxing actually laughed again: "Fire you? It shouldn't be so serious. Sometimes punishment also depends on the attitude of admitting mistakes. Now that the facts have happened, I will not withdraw the complaint, but I can write a statement stating that you have come. Apologize to me."

Qiao Samgao: "What if the school really wants to expel me?"

Hua Zhenxing: "When you say that, it reminds me of a person. His surname is Ding, and he is a teacher I respect very much. Teacher Ding has some experiences similar to yours. He used to be a teaching assistant and an in-service doctorate in a key university.

Later he made a mistake and was expelled from school.I asked him about it and he said that was the price he should pay.The teacher Ding I know is definitely a person worthy of respect, and he has achieved extraordinary achievements now! "

While talking, Hua Zhenxing took out a piece of A4 paper and wrote an explanation:

"On the evening of September 2023, 9, Mr. Qiao Samgao came to the dormitory to apologize to me in person for his inappropriate words and deeds a few days ago. I accepted his apology and rejected the gift he brought (a new nectarine mobile phone) .

After Mrs. Qiao Shangao apologized, he asked me to sign the prepared school processing receipt (with a photo), but I did not sign it.He also asked me to withdraw two complaints to the Ministry of Education and the Ministry of Foreign Affairs, but I did not agree.

Hereby explain.

Hua Zhenxing, September 2023, 9"

After finishing writing, he handed the paper to Qiao Samgao.Qiao Samgao glanced twice, his expression changed, he stared at Hua Zhenxing and said, "You just write me such an explanation?"

Hua Zhenxing asked back: "Isn't it true?"

Qiao Shangao shook the paper and threw it away, and said in a stern tone, "Student Hua Zhenxing, if the school punishes me, have you ever thought about the price you will pay?"

Hua Zhenxing: "Don't tell me you want to fight with me? I suggest that you better give up this idea."

Qiao Shangao: "You will offend many people, including teachers. Chunhua University also has regulations. If you don't have enough credits, you can't graduate. If you fail too many subjects in the exam, you will be dismissed."