Chapter 436 Postpartum Depression
Chapter 436 Postpartum Depression
Aunt Zhang sorted out Yu Jiang's clothes, and after the child was taken away by Lou Wangyun, Aunt Liu opened the screen that served as a partition.
Lou Wangyun was in high spirits while holding the child. "Look how cute our little baby is! Look at this little nose, it's as pretty as our Yuyu..."
Feng Yixu and Jiang Jun agreed with a smile, while Ran Jingru and Yu Xianning stood on tiptoe to see little Shuyi.
Ran Feng felt a little uncomfortable when he saw the weak Yu Jiang. He had read many posts about mothers suffering from postpartum depression because their families paid too much attention to their children.
He felt that other family members paid too little attention to Yu Jiang, which was not good, especially since his father-in-law knew that Yu Jiang was emotionally sensitive.
But he was really overthinking it. Everyone liked his daughter, and Yu Jiang was very happy.
She had no expression on her face now only because she was exhausted. Otherwise, she would have joined their conversation and praised how beautiful their daughter was.
Ran Feng didn't ask her what she thought, but secretly decided to focus all his energy on Yu Jiang.
On the first day after giving birth, Yu Jiang spent all her time sleeping, eating and breastfeeding, and the same went for Xiao Shuyi.
Ran Feng was busier. He learned how to hold a baby, how to change diapers, and how to take care of a mother. He learned everything he could.
In comparison, Yu Jiang didn't have to worry much. All she had to do was lie on the bed and cooperate.
After scrubbing once, I started using the abdominal belt and pelvic belt. They were not very comfortable, but they were okay after I got used to them.
What is more difficult to deal with is Yu Jiang's long hair. It is not easy to wash her hair frequently during the confinement period. Her hair is too long and it is not very comfortable to wrap it.
She doesn’t like the food she eats every day. There is always some soup, and it seems like she can never finish it.
In the past two days, Yu Jiang's physical strength has almost recovered, but Ran Feng was beaten to a pulp.
Although there was a confinement nanny, he was always busy.
He originally felt that he couldn't help with having the baby, and now he still couldn't help. Seeing Yu Jiang suffer, he always felt guilty.
He would get up to accompany Yu Jiang when he fed him in the middle of the night, and he would also change Ran Shuyi's diapers. He would be awake when Yu Jiang was awake, and he would also have something to do when Yu Jiang was catching up on his sleep.
Jiang Xiao has found a lot of staff in Dongshan. If he doesn't take the initiative to participate, there is nothing for him to do.
But he always thought about what he should do as a father, and he still had to do it when he got home.
Yu Jiang looked at his messy hair and untidy beard and smiled helplessly: "Can you take some time to clean yourself up? My daughter sees her father so sloppy every day, she will be disgusted."
Ran Feng said indifferently: "The Internet and the doctor said that children this age don't remember anything."
Yu Jiang rubbed his bearded face, "She doesn't remember, but I do. I see you being disgusted like this every day."
"Oh." Ran Feng lowered his head and touched his beard.
While Yu Jiang was sleeping, Ran Feng asked a stylist to do some serious styling.
When Yu Jiang woke up, he saw Ran Feng, who was fully made up. The corners of his mouth twitched for a long time before he managed to utter: "Why are you making a fool of yourself?"
Ran Feng stroked his temples greasyly, "In order to prevent the baby from disliking me, I just dressed up simply."
"You are not simple at all, you are too complicated." Yu Jiang looked at him with a smile, "You even changed your clothes and wore high-end clothes to come to the hospital to take care of your confinement?"
"No matter what you wear, it won't hinder me from taking care of you. Just tell me if you look handsome or not!" Ran Feng said proudly, "There's not much I can do, but making the baby happy is what I should do."
Yu Jiang curled his lips, "You are dressed so handsomely, and I am completely without makeup. The camera in the room is still recording. What is your intention?"
There were no staff members from "Prospective Parents" appearing in front of them, causing Ran Feng to almost forget about the recording of the show, otherwise he wouldn't have been so sloppy in the past two days.
Yu Jiang pretended to be enlightened, "Oh, I see! Are you going to buy the press release of Ran Fengyan to suppress Yu Jiang?!"
"What a mess? I..." Before Ran Feng could finish his words, Gong Jianan came in and interrupted him.
"Hey, the top star is wearing makeup today?" Ran Feng, who was fully dressed in makeup, looked like a tourist attraction, so eye-catching.
Gong Jianan took out his phone and sent a message while saying, "Makeup is done. I'll find someone to take some photos of you as a fashionable dad. Su Ruizheng is worried that you have nothing to post about your one-eyed face."
Yu Jiang was not happy to hear this. "What do you mean? He's the fashionable dad, and I'm the shabby one?"
Ran Feng was afraid that she would be in a bad mood every day, so he said simply: "I'm going to take off my makeup."
Yu Jiang grabbed his hand and said, "Come on, it's quite handsome. Let me admire it for a while."
Ran Feng carefully confirmed that she was in good spirits before giving up, but he also refused to take a big photo and only let Gong Jianan take two photos with her mobile phone.
Gong Jianan originally wanted to take two photos of the family of three, as they hadn’t posted any on Duyan since the birth of their child, but Yu Jiang refused to be in the same frame with Ran Feng, who was fully made-up.
"He's dressed so nicely, I won't take photos with him. I'll outshine him. I'll take photos with him when I can outshine him."
Her words made Ran Feng persist in not caring about his appearance for a few days. Only when he had untidy beard and greasy hair again did he take a photo with her and post the one-eyed photo.
Appearance doesn't matter, he's still a handsome guy even with a beard, it doesn't affect him at all.
What Yu Jiang really thinks is problematic is that Ran Feng really doesn’t sleep!
He has nothing to do every day but just hangs around. Don't ask me, the answer is that he can't sleep.
Because of lack of sleep, his other symptoms also appeared.
Sometimes when I was feeding Yu Jiang soup, I would suddenly hear the sound of a baby crying.
He ate less, his dark circles became heavier, and he looked very haggard, as if the child was his own.
I'm guarding the hospital, so of course I can't just watch him like this.
I went to the main building and had all the tests done, and the doctor there said it was a psychological problem.
The postpartum psychological adjuster Yu Jiang prepared by Jiang Xiao was not used, but was used by Ran Feng, so it was not a waste.
The psychologist gave me a test and it turned out to be postpartum depression.
Yu Jiang was speechless. She was not depressed, but Ran Feng made her depressed. What kind of mental quality is that?
Just treat the disease if it exists. He is not at the stage where he needs to take medication, but he just goes for psychological treatment every day.
As for his psychological counseling, the main thing is to dispel his guilt and make him stop feeling so guilty.
After a period of treatment, he felt better than before. At least he didn't completely lose sleep anymore. He also got some sleep when Yu Jiang slept.
But nothing else has changed, and I still follow Yu Jiang's schedule.
Treatment is a process. Yu Jiang is very satisfied with the results. At least he won’t kill himself.
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